Monday, 25 October 2010

Some girls favour the guys that know their way around a computer...I'm one of those girls.

When we're younger you trust your family to tell you right from wrong. Don't talk to strangers; don't cross the road 'til the red man is having a nap, etc. But when we get to the middle of our teen years, they kinda let you go make your own mistakes. And you assume your friends can let you do the same, right?
They allow you to fall in and out of love, and let you fall out with your parents. They can inform you that certain people are not supposed to be hung around with. And they're just supposed to be there to pick up the pieces and help you get on with everything else...it's kinda like a friend's duty. That's even more so when it comes to affairs of the heart, right? 

I can guarantee that not every person will like every one of their friend's ex/current boyfriends/girlfriends. I can guarantee it. But does that mean you tell the friend that you don't like the person? That you don't like the way in which you meet new guys? That they think they should 'warn' you against meeting boyfriends online? No. What they're supposed to do is stand by and offer 'advice' not 'warnings' if they've offered advice...that's all they can do, until it all blows up in smoke. They don't say something like 'Im going to have to warn her. You all know what happened last time she met someone like this' that's just not what you do. GAH! This entry makes no sense. So yeah.

I’m not one of those girls that can meet guys in real life, I mean c’mon…look at me. I’m socially awkward, I’m not the thinnest of people and flare my arms around far too much(But that’s because of Grace’s influence) it’s the only way I can meet people. I don’t talk to people at college, and I don’t really leave the house anymore(…I used to go to gigs in town…but a certain person’s boyfriend stopped her going, and I don’t go places by myself) so I think I’m allowed to talk to guys online. I think I’m allowed to sit until god knows what time in the morning, talking to them on msn and talking about YouTube. Because tbfh it’s the only form of actual human interaction I get these days. 


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